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9.6Relationships Tip - Forgive and Forget
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1/13/2009
How to improve your relationship by forgiving your partner.
Forgive your partner. Do not keep brining up past issues. If you do this, you are at fault for increasing the tension in your relationship.

If your partner does something to upset you, sit down with them. Let them know that you want to discuss it. Let them know that it is important. Tell them in a succinct matter what they have done and why it upset you. Do not act angry. Tell them once and then let it go. Forgive them. We all make mistakes. Do not bring it up again and do not keep repeating it in the same discussion. They heard and understood you the first time.

NEVER DREDGE UP NEGATIVE ISSUES FROM THE PAST! Think about the good things that happened! What your spouse did right. If you focus on the good things you will automatically attract more good things into your life!

Forgiveness has a very powerful, positive effect on you. The benefits are well documented. If you hold a grudge and are a vengeful person, you can actually increase the stress in your life and decrease your overall health level.

Forgive and forget! Improve your relationship and yourself.
To learn more about improving your relationship, try reading Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex

How to Win Friends & Influence People is another great resource.

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In awe of that ansewr! Really cool!
Comment 1 On:Forgive and Forget
Added By: kxgMxnXytFwMCz
Added On: 4/25/2011 1:09:00 PM
2Let it go
Don't bring up old issues. Why dwell on them. Apologize....forgive...move on.
Comment 2 On:Forgive and Forget
Added On: 1/27/2009 7:44:49 PM
3Forgive for yourself
When you remember something you are angry about stop and feel the opposite emotion. Feel love and forgiveness. Makes life much easier.
Comment 3 On:Forgive and Forget
Added On: 1/17/2009 9:58:56 PM
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